Tips on writing your own vows

Writing your own vows is such a special gift to give on your wedding day. It adds a personal touch to your forever after and is something you and your hubby-to-be will remember for the rest of your lives.

It can however, be a difficult task to take on, especially if you don't have a little Shakespeare living inside of you. But don't worry, we've got you covered. By following the below steps, you will be able to speak from the heart and share intimate, personal vows with your other half.

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Step 1: Start at the beginning

Where did your story start? Why was it so significant? What did it mean to you? How did it grow from there?

For example: My love, for so long I have prayed and wished to meet you, and finally in the Spring of 2013 my prayers were answered. You walked into my life with a smile and a simple "is this seat taken?" and I remember feeling blown away by your blue eyes and your kindness. I knew this could be the start of something great, and throughout the years you have exceeded every expectation. Your love, support, respect and kindness have carried me through the years and I grew more in love with you every day. That is why I want to vow the following to you today.

Step 2: Non-serious, cute and personal vows

Start with the "light stuff". What is something personal to your relationship? What do you enjoy? What do you generally do for each other?

For example:I vow to wake you up with coffee in bed, at least twice a week, because I know you are not a morning person. I vow to kiss you goodbye in the mornings and hello when you get back from work. I vow to search for new adventures with you. To laugh with you, and at you, even though you might eventually tell "dad jokes". I vow to continue having fun.

Step 3: The "serious stuff"

Now it is time to get deep. What are his or your fears? What are the difficult things to vow? The hardships in life? What are you really here for?

For example: But on a more serious note. I vow to pray with you and for you every single day. I vow to trust in you as my husband, to believe in you and to support your dreams. I vow to be vulnerable, to ask for your support and guidance and also to be there for you when you need me the most. I vow to build a life with you and to choose you every day. I vow to be there for you, in sickness and health, through hardships and the good days. I vow to share in your joy. But most of all, I vow to love you and only you for the rest of our lives.

Always remember: "When you speak from your heart and say the words your soul has only dared to whisper, that's when miracles happen."